What makes a girl a girl? Is it really a combo of sugar, spice, and all things nice? R we all from venus?
It makes me cringe in disgust when the general public, typically men, stereotype women. So when we are women we are natural gossipers? Shopaholics? High heeled freaks with an immense love for the color pink and all things lacy, pot pourried and perfumed? I've got news for you baby ... Not all women are like that so try to drum that into that skull of yours. Was just discussing this topic with Sherli in the car that day. Why do men automatically think that women loves collecting Barbie dolls and that we love the color pink? I've had countless guy friends of mine telling me that i'm different. That I'm not a typical girl. So what do u think is a typical girl? Just break that stereotypical view of yours and hey presto! I'm not that different actually. I still love shopping. I still say "SO CUTE" in a very high pitched tone when i see a kitten/puppy/mini dress with cherries on it. But dont u ever think that I will be a submissive little pet that will succumb to your whims just because you got me a teddy bear. I will not go "aiye.. so cute wan the bear bear. U so sweet la.. I cook for u tomorrow ok? I come over and wash your baju for u la ok?" Urghh disgusting. I will not be sobbing my eyeballs out and begging you to return to me when you leave me for another girl that looks like Selena/Hebe/Rainy Young (la-la girls these days try to emulate these 3 girls and i personally find it repulsive and a no brainer move to do so. Purple and orange Dont mix! Get it?!)
So i'll tell u the things that I like in contrary to my other female kind. I like the sensation of needles going into my skin (no im not sick. i'm just weird), I like cars & no i dont like the Beetle or the little mini mini cars on the road, I like cars big, huge in fact, my dream is to be married in a Hummer, I hate the color pink, I change my own tyres, I DIY-ed all of the DIY-able furniture in my house, no i'm not afraid frogs/toads, I AM NOT AFRAID OF CHIPPING MY OWN NAILS, I enjoy watching soccer and whole bunch of etcs ....
This post may have sounded slightly angry/like a verbal lash out to men/desperate plea for help .. But please dont get me wrong. I just have stuff in my head that I wanna express. So girls, dont ever have the mentality that when you're born a women, you have to be weak and voiceless over men. You can open your own jar. Just use a bit more strength and perseverence. And if that doesn't work, take a rubber band, tie it around the lid, and open the jar. It works everytime. Rubber acts like a grip, get it?
In conclusion,
It makes me cringe in disgust when the general public, typically men, stereotype women. So when we are women we are natural gossipers? Shopaholics? High heeled freaks with an immense love for the color pink and all things lacy, pot pourried and perfumed? I've got news for you baby ... Not all women are like that so try to drum that into that skull of yours. Was just discussing this topic with Sherli in the car that day. Why do men automatically think that women loves collecting Barbie dolls and that we love the color pink? I've had countless guy friends of mine telling me that i'm different. That I'm not a typical girl. So what do u think is a typical girl? Just break that stereotypical view of yours and hey presto! I'm not that different actually. I still love shopping. I still say "SO CUTE" in a very high pitched tone when i see a kitten/puppy/mini dress with cherries on it. But dont u ever think that I will be a submissive little pet that will succumb to your whims just because you got me a teddy bear. I will not go "aiye.. so cute wan the bear bear. U so sweet la.. I cook for u tomorrow ok? I come over and wash your baju for u la ok?" Urghh disgusting. I will not be sobbing my eyeballs out and begging you to return to me when you leave me for another girl that looks like Selena/Hebe/Rainy Young (la-la girls these days try to emulate these 3 girls and i personally find it repulsive and a no brainer move to do so. Purple and orange Dont mix! Get it?!)
So i'll tell u the things that I like in contrary to my other female kind. I like the sensation of needles going into my skin (no im not sick. i'm just weird), I like cars & no i dont like the Beetle or the little mini mini cars on the road, I like cars big, huge in fact, my dream is to be married in a Hummer, I hate the color pink, I change my own tyres, I DIY-ed all of the DIY-able furniture in my house, no i'm not afraid frogs/toads, I AM NOT AFRAID OF CHIPPING MY OWN NAILS, I enjoy watching soccer and whole bunch of etcs ....
This post may have sounded slightly angry/like a verbal lash out to men/desperate plea for help .. But please dont get me wrong. I just have stuff in my head that I wanna express. So girls, dont ever have the mentality that when you're born a women, you have to be weak and voiceless over men. You can open your own jar. Just use a bit more strength and perseverence. And if that doesn't work, take a rubber band, tie it around the lid, and open the jar. It works everytime. Rubber acts like a grip, get it?
In conclusion,
No I'm NOT a lesbo. I still love men inspite of their idiosyncrasies and
inablity of asking for directions . . .
0 La-di-da's ...:
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